I had a shift in perspective last year while publishing my coloring books. It’s made my life much better. I think it’s due to a distinction I picked up from Gary Vaynerchuck. You see I am what is commonly called a “people pleaser.” I picked up the habit from my childhood environment, and from being the fat kid in school. In order to feel safe, and accepted, I spent a lot of time putting other’s needs before mine. I don’t think there is anything at all wrong with wanting the best for others. However, like anything it can be taken too far. I have often taken it too far in my life, sacrificing my needs and preferences for those of others. This is not a good trait when you put your work out into the world for the public to see, … Continue reading
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